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Hey y’all-

A few weeks ago I picked Rachel up at the Louisville airport. From there, we proceeded to drive approximately 900 miles as we made “the loop.” Louisville to Nashville to Crossville to Knoxville to Dayton to Louisville. We made the rounds.

I wanted to show Rachel where I am from and let her meet some of the home folks. She met the pastor who is going to marry us–Kevin Shrum. She met his wife and two boys. She met Inglewood Baptist Church family and Oak Hill Baptist Church family. She met my aunt and uncle. And all of the groomsmen–Bubba, Hoss, Ed, James, and Catfish. (You know you’re really a friend when you get a nickname.) Plus, a few extra characters like Ty and Buck.

She experienced Gondola’s in Crossville, Krystal burgers in Tennessee, and City BBQ in Centerville. Most of all, we had a great time just spending time together. I can’t wait to be her husband. But, I’ll have to….

I leave for Europe tomorrow for a three-week mission trip with The Long Run Players. Pray for us as we go. And pray for me and Rachel as we start our life together in August. I am stoked!

Living the dream,

Jeff

My Love Returns….

Rachel returned from a mission trip to Haiti late Saturday night. I was at a bluegrass festival called ROMP! in Owensboro, KY. We didn’t get a chance to talk much but she had a great, blessed time. The Lord worked through them to touch the people of Haiti in a meaningful way. Plus, God showed Himself faithful to answer prayers of reconciliation and healing. It was quite a trip…..may have to sweet-talk her into sharing on the blog. (Sweet-talking is my specialty, after all.)

Now, I anxiously await Wednesday morning when her plane will arrive in Louisville. I am stoked.

Just a quick update.

Word. Jeff

Rachel and I drove (rather slowly) to the airport in Austin, TX on the day after Mother’s Day. We were in no rush to get me to the airport. Since then, there has been a lot of phone calls, a few Skype calls, and an interminable wait. But, the wait is almost over….

Rachel is coming to Kentucky next week! I’m stoked to see her. We’ll head south into Tennessee to show her some of my old stompin’ grounds before heading to Ohio to spend a week with my family.

After this trip, she goes to TX. I go to Europe. And when I get back from my mission trip with “The Long Run Players,” I’ll move my stuff to Texas and marry this awesome woman. The summer is gonna end real well. (You can read about my mission trip with LRP here.)

So, we are still writing the story. It continues. I’ll update you as I can. Rachel will add a little something here soon. Well, I’ll ask her to and see what she says.

Thanks for reading!

If there’s any info. you want, let me know what I’ve left out…..

Blessings!

Jeff

The Story – Part X

Hey! You’re having Bible Study? Well, we’re engaged! (AHHHHH! AHHHHHHH! AHHHHHH!)

After getting the ring (pic to be posted later) and cleaning up, Rachel and I headed to her small group. Her church calls them Hope Groups. They were meeting at Jeremy and Candace’s house (I think I spelled their names wrong…), so that is where we headed.

We just walked in the door and some girls on the couch immediately turned and looked. At Rachel’s left hand. Rachel said, “We’re enga… (AHHHHH! – this is college girls and post-college girls screaming – AHHHHHHHH! AHHHHHHH!) ….ged!”

We broke up the Bible study. Gladly, it was their last meeting of the spring semester and they were involved in talking about a lot of things, so we didn’t kill a super-spiritual event.

Then, the girls gathered around Rachel in a giggling gaggle (nice!) and talked a mile a minute. The dudes came over and congratulated me. Lots of hugs, handshakes, and back-slapping.

After order had been somewhat restored, we all sat down and they wanted to hear “The Story.” I said, “I’ll blog it, so check WordPress in about three weeks….” No, I really said, “Well, Rachel and I….” And, I gave them “The Story” in an abbreviated version. Y’all are getting the fuller treatment from Uncle Jeff.

We sat around and talked for quite some time and then the Hope Group had their final prayer time. After that, Rachel and I went to Kroger to get ice cream and headed to Mark and Melodi’s house. Melodi is one of Rachel’s best friends and a spiritual mentor.

We went in. Melodi saw Rachel’s left hand.

Rachel said, “We’re enga… (AHHHHH! – this is a mother of nine [Melodi] screaming – AHHHHHHHH! AHHHHHHH!) ….ged!”

So, we sat down, told “The Story,” and ate ice cream. That’s the way a man should get engaged. The rest of the night was great. Just hanging out with my fiancee. Something I had never, ever done in my entire life. I’ve traveled the world. Played music in front of a bunch of people. Been in two movies. Surfed in Australia. Snorkeled in Indonesia. Stood on the Great Wall. Participated in a violent uprising in an Eastern country. Ate dog, bat, and a host of other weirdness. But, I’ve never had a fiancee before. (And I never will again.) May 8, 2011 was a fantastic day.

Now, I get to fly to Kentucky on Monday and not see Rachel again for about six weeks. Who came up with that brilliant plan?

With this ring….

After asking Rachel to marry me, I thought we might continue our walk. She had another idea. Rachel said, “I want to go to the car and call the jewelry stores and see if they’re still open.”

We did. They were. We went.

Hot. Sweaty. Tickled pink….we went to the mall, y’all.

On the drive, I called my Mom for Mother’s Day. I dialed. She answered. I said, “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom! Sorry I called so late, but I wanted to wait and call until you until I had your gift.”

“My gift?”

“Yeah, your gift…”

“What’s my gift?”

“A daughter-in-law! Here, talk to her…” And I handed Rachel my phone. They talked for a bit as we drove to the mall. I give the best Mother’s Day gifts….

After arriving at the mall, we stopped by the food court restrooms to wash our hands. I mean, who tries on engagement rings with dirty hands? Come on, people!

Then, we hit a few jewelry stores. Rachel found what she was looking for at the first store we visited and talked to someone. But, she wanted to look around a bit longer. So, we tried two other stores. At the third store, we saw the exact ring from the first store.  We said, “That looks like the ring at Gordon’s.” The lady said, “It is. We’re the same company…” Oh, well we learned something about jewelry stores.

While looking at the same ring as Gordon’s, we noticed another ring. A little nicer. A little more expensive. A lot prettier. Rachel tried it on and I thought, “Bingo! Here’s my credit card.” But, ring shopping doesn’t happen that way.

So, we looked at other rings. Rachel continued to wear the nicer ring. We looked at the original ring. She tried it on again. But, we kept coming back to the nicer ring. She asked my opinion. I said, “Darlin’, you are only getting engaged once. Get the ring you like best. I like the nicer ring. It looks great on you and I think you’ll be happy with it for a long time.” (Obviously, the sales lady agreed with me. It’s more $$$.)

So, Rachel decided on the nicer ring. I handed the lady my well-worn Discover card and watched it pass with flying colors. We had us an engagement ring! And, we bought her wedding band at the same time. It was a set.

As we were leaving the mall, I said, “How come the dude doesn’t get an engagement gift? Maybe like engagement sunglasses? Or, engagement running shoes?” Can we start a new tradition, America?

After leaving the mall, I said, “Where to now?” Rachel wanted to go to her small group meeting from church, even though we were way late, and share the news. So, we did…

The Proposal – SPOILER ALERT: She said, “Yes!”

Sunday morning, Rachel and I drove three hours from Van to College Station for church. Well, I drove and Rachel drank a HUGE Diet Coke. The girl is addicted and doesn’t even care. We arrived at church in time for the end of the prayer service prior to worship service. I got a cup of coffee. She didn’t get a thing. She didn’t need it….remember the Diet Coke?

After the prayer service, we went in to worship and her pastor preached a good Mother’s Day message. He said, “If you haven’t called your Mom yet, shame on you. Call her before you eat.” I told Rachel, “I’m not calling my Mom before we eat. I’m hungry.”

After church, we went to a pizza joint and ate the buffet with some friends. It was a good time. But, I had other things on my mind. After lunch, we decided to take a walk. (See how I’m working the deal?)  So, we went to Rachel’s. Changed into exercise gear and headed for Lick Creek Park. (Yes, I like the name of the park. It’s fun.)

We walked for about 30 minutes or so and approached a bench that had been placed alongside the trail for weary travelers (or for those boyfriends looking to propose). I said, “Let’s sit down for a minute.” (CAN YOU FEEL THE TENSION IN THE AIR???)

I said, “Rachel, _______, _________. ______________. _________? ____________. Will you marry me?” Now, I’m giving you the liberty to fill in the spaces with all of the best sweet-talkin’ you’ve ever heard in a movie, love song, or trashy novel. It was all there. I told her I love her. I want to take care of her for the rest of her life. I want us to build a life together. Guess what? She was down with it. In other words, she said, “Yes!”

After the proposal, we went from talking about “if” to “when” in regards to our future together. That was a cool change. We sat there awhile and talked and laughed about the weekend. I told her how I talked to her Dad. I told her I didn’t get her a ring yet because I wanted her to get exactly what she wanted. I thought when she comes to Kentucky again we’ll have time to shop. Rachel said, “I know what I want…”

“Really? Have you seen a ring in College Station that you like?”

“Yep.”

“I said, “Well, maybe after Hope Group we can go and look tonight. Maybe the jewelry stores will be open late because it’s Mother’s Day.”

And then I said, “Let’s walk some more…if you want.” She said, “I want to go call the jewelry stores…..”

Up next: The Ring.

UPDATE: A friend, Brandy, asked, “Did you EVER call your mother?” Yes, I did…….I’ll tell more about that in the upcoming post….

Hi, my name is Jeff. Can I marry your daughter?

The weekend in Van, Texas with Rachel’s folks was great fun. We ate, we relaxed, we talked, we laughed, we had a good time. But, now it was time to get down to business….I needed to talk to her Dad.

Saturday was the day. I was looking for an opportunity all day long. Rachel and I went and worked-out. We drove to Tyler to eat at Mercado’s (Rachel’s favorite Mexican restaurant in the whole world) with her parents and their good friends, Mitch and Lainie. After eating, we walked around the Rose Garden in Tyler. That’s where our “prom photo” happened….a real prom was being held there that night and we jumped in and snapped a shot before the pro photogs showed up. Sneaky….

After Tyler, we rode home and her Dad took a nap. Man, time was running short. Later, we ate a bite of dinner and decided to have ice cream sundaes. (These are my kind of people!) We carried our sundaes over to her aunt’s house (across the yard) and ate there. After eating, Gene (Rachel’s Dad) said, “I’ll take the bowls back to our house.” I said, “I’ll help…”

He and I walked into the kitchen, put the bowls in the sink, and I said, “Gene, I need to talk to you.” He kinda leaned back on the counter and grinned at me. He knew what was coming….

I told him I loved his daughter and I thought we would make a good married couple. I told him all that had been on my heart since first meeting Rachel. How I felt God had brought us together. How we were going to serve Him together. And so on….I laid it on the line, people. But, I won’t lay it on the line here….let’s just say, I brought my A-game. And, I’m a talker.

Gene said, “Jeff, I gave my children up to the Lord a long time ago. I knew He would have to take care of them. So, if you think the Lord has said it’s okay, it’s fine by me. Congratulations. You are going to have a great life together.” (I put it in quotes, but that is a close approximation…)

I was on cloud nine. Stoked. Psyched. Jazzed. Pumped. Etc. But, we still had some of the evening to pass and I needed to propose. Gene and I went back to Rachel’s aunt’s house and joined in the conversation. He didn’t give anything away. He’s gonna be a great father-in-law.

The next morning, we got up, got ready, and headed for College Station for church. It was Mother’s Day and Rachel wanted to get back for church. I wanted to propose. We both were gonna get what we wanted…..

 

Hey y’all-

I’ll be posting the next installment of “The Story” on Monday.

Why? I need a weekend break…..plus, y’all don’t have work to skip on the weekends.

Blessings.

The Preacher

Keep Austin Weird

I flew into Austin on Thursday morning, May 5th. I had three big plans that day. See Rachel. Go to Chuy’s for lunch. Meet my A-Phi friend, Amy for lunch (with Rachel, of course). I was excited.

I lived in Austin from 1997-2000 and have fond memories of that place. It’s a cool town. There, I was in two movies, climbed telephone poles for a living, played music, learned about computers, wrote songs, danced at dancehalls, floated the Guadalupe, and went to a ton of great shows in sketchy clubs. Austin is a great place. I love Texas. Okay, enough gushing….

So, my flight was on time and I breathed deep as I landed in Austin. Even the airport is cool. Plus, I saw Steve Earle as I was walking. I was staring at him and he said, “Hey.” Yes, we had a moment.

I made it to baggage claim and I saw this blonde woman standing by the huge guitars….man, she looked good. I was stoked to see Rachel.

Guess who got to drive in Austin? Yep, me. We headed to Chuy’s and beat Amy by about 10 minutes. Plenty of time to get a table, a drink (Diet Cokes all around), and some chips-n-salsa. Did I mention I love Texas? And Rachel? And, not in that order….

Amy arrived and we had a great meal. She’s a great friend. I sang in her wedding and we have a fun history.

Rachel and I headed for Van, Texas. (Google it because I couldn’t tell you how to get there if I had to.) It’s about a 5-hour drive from Austin. We were not in a rush. On the drive, we stopped at Wal-Mart, several gas stations, and a cool hat store in an old water tower. Remember, we were not in a rush.

When we got to Rachel’s parent’s house, I was a smidge nervous. Why? Well, I mean, I wanted to marry their daughter. Wouldn’t you be nervous?

Rachel’s Mom and Dad (Gene and Cathy) were super-cool. We kept everything on the down-low and had a simple dinner and hang-out at their pad. They have a sweet house that they recently built on about 20 acres of land. It’s secluded and laid-back. I likey.

I ended up crashing at Rachel’s aunt’s house. It’s just across the yard from her folks. We started slow on Friday morning, but had later plans for a meal and bowling with some close friends. Friday was great. We played tennis. Took a walk. Relaxed. And headed out for burgers and bowling. I put on quite the display at the burger joint and bowling. I may have bowled the best game of my life….I was feelin’ it.

Saturday came and it was time to talk to her Dad…..

The Story – Part V

Mom, Dad…this is Rachel.

Rachel landed in Louisville late on Thursday, April 21st. Earlier that day, I had preached a family funeral in Ohio and I had to scoot back to get her from the airport. She was late…I didn’t mind. I told you, this girl is worth waiting for….

That night, we went to a friend’s house where she was to crash for the night. They had some great Indonesian food prepared (soto aym). I love good food. And, free food. My two favorite kinds….

Friday morning, we loaded up and headed for Ohio. Of course, we needed to make a quick stop at Cracker Barrel for some breakfast. I chowed down. Ever seen me at Cracker Barrel? It’s quite a display…

Oh, did I mention it was my birthday? Nice present….having Rachel in town.

We hit the Dayton, Ohio area like a rocket sled on rails and gathered with the family. We stopped at Mom and Dad’s house and then went to my sister, Jessica’s, house. She and my brother-in-law Mike have three kids–Camden, Kyle, and Quincy.

There, Rachel was getting introduced to the family and Jessica asked if she had any nieces and nephews. Rachel said she had five. My 8-year-old nephew Camden said, “It’s about to be 8.” (How did he know???)

That night, we went bowling to celebrate my 40th and had cake. It was a good time. The next day, Rachel and I got a workout in and went to my nephew Kyle’s 6th-birthday party. He and I share a birthday. Well, since he was born, it’s his birthday and I am just kinda there….(sad, huh?)

Saturday night, Mike, Jess, Rachel, and I went out to eat. The food was good. The ice cream (Graeter’s) was great. And, the company was awesome. A fun night. The next morning was Easter and Rachel and I headed to Kentucky for church.

I preached Easter morning and did a better job. Lunch with the usual crew was fun. We ended up resting a bit before Rachel had to fly home.

The good news: Rachel seemed to enjoy meeting the folks. The folks loved her. I got two phone calls the next week attesting to their love for Rachel and how I needed to “get with it.” Thanks, Mom….and Jess….

As I took Rachel to the airport, parting was getting tougher. But, we had something to look forward to….in two weeks, I was going to meet her parents….

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